Sometimes in life things happen where the blame gets pinned on someone who may or may not have done the "crime" This is where you need to look around assess the situation and decide...is it right or is it wrong...this is for you and you only to decide.
Maybe it is from someone putting the blame on you for something you did not do...like, spill a glass of milk...(don't cry over spilled milk by the way...it's not becoming of you and if you are like me...your not a pretty faced cryer and yes...I do know cryer isn't a real word) annnnnnyways you feel the need to defend yourself and to prove you are right. But in the end, whether they believe you or not the outcome is still the same...facts are facts...you didn't spill the milk. You know you didn't spill the milk...shouldn't that be what matters most. Believing in yourself is the only thing that will take you through life in strides. Putting all your energy into proving to someone what you are saying is true or not can be very exhausting on a good day.
So if you know you didn't do it...state that fact and let it be...fate has a funny way of working things out the way they are suppose to...spilled milk or not...
If you aren't being honest I will tell you this....
Honesty is a very hard thing to come by in people now a days...and maybe in olden days too...I'm really not that old to know...but what I do know...is once you lie once...two things happen....the lie becomes bigger each time you tell it and the second thing is that it's hard to get someone to believe you again. You will be like the boy who cried wolf. Not only that you will probably carry that burden around with you for a very long time...
